6/24/14

A Quick Post About My Feeeelings


I turned off my computer and phone last week while I vacationed in Fire Island with friends. I needed to break myself away from the Kate Kelly excommunication developments. I'm shocked I'm obsessed with her because I never put my profile on the Ordain Women website. I never marched with her at the priesthood meeting at conference. I don't even think women should be ordained. I don't think men should either. Ordain No One is the only group I could join at this point. I'll start it if it hasn't already been formed. Give church jobs to the most qualified or whoever has the most time or wants it the most. Let's quit these elitist titles and ceremonies and just move on. We're all special. Regardless of my outrageous beliefs, I still love reading about Kate. She tried. I respect that. The commentaries on the issue are entertaining.

Last night, I found some advice from a random guy on Facebook that helped. He suggested this: Go to a coffee shop. Sit there with a newspaper, take your time, and wait for the coffee to get cold if you don't drink coffee, or drink it if you do drink coffee. And just look around at all the people that are just fine. They are all fine. They drink coffee. They read. They have no clue what mormons do or think. They are fine. And you'll be fine. The other side is not necessarily harder or easier, but whatever the hell it is it's better with authenticity.

So that's what I'll do. I needed to get this out before I could write about Ferris wheels and ice cream and sand castles. It meant too much to me to ignore and act like nothing has happened. Pics of our summer trips coming soon. We've already gone to Ocean City, camped in the Catskills, and spent a week in Fire Island. My Summer Travel Blog starts now. Or whenever I upload the pictures and write the post. So like in a month or next year or tomorrow.

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23 comments:

  1. Wow, I just commented about this on your last post! I would join Ordain No One, but I'm also not Mormon so I'm not sure I get a vote. I don't understand what about having a swinging johnson or any other physical characteristic makes someone a better leader? Does the vag tangle the communication lines to God? So weird. I love the advice you found, makes me feel like I'm doing something right.

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    1. ha exactly. your comment reminds me of this Onion article entitled, Deformed Freak Born Without Penis

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    2. haha, that is so good, how did I miss this one?? Sort of unrelated, but I was watching American Ninja Warrior the other night when the first woman ever on the show completed the qualifying round. She was like "I wanted to do it for all the ladies out there, we can do it too!" I nearly teared up. Ha, what is wrong with me?

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    3. omg she was the talk of our family. my kids are obsessed with that show. haha

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    4. How to restore a broken relationship and marriage ,Love Spells That Really Work Fast

      My name is Mark Davis, my family and i live in NY USA.It was after seven years i got to discover that my wife was unfaithful to me.I didn't know what was going on at first but as she got deep in the affair with her new lover, i felt that our marriage was on the rocks.I notice that she no longer light up when i touch her or kiss her in her neck and her chest cos she really liked it when i did that, she also usually get naked in front of me but when she started seeing that guy she stopped it.I remember asking her if i have done anything that makes her feel irritated when i am around her then she gives silly excuses that she has been feeling stressed up and that she need space for a while.I know when you are been asked for space its usually because there is something fishy is going on.I hired a private investigator to help find out what was going on.And in a week time he brought me prove that my wife that i have lived with for seven straight year is cheating on me with her high school lover.I had picture of her walking out a of a restaurant with him and many other photo of them kissing in public like she will never be caught by someone that knows she is my wife.I asked myself, even when we had a daughter together she could this to me.That same night i showed her the pictures that i got from my private investigator.She didn't look at it before saying, that she is seeing someone and she know that i just found out about it.Then she said that she is in love with him.At that moment, i didn't know if to kill myself or to kill her but the button line is that if i was going to kill anyone it was going to be me cos i was so much in love with her to even think of thinking to hurt her.As time when on she asked for a divorce and got it and even got custody of our daughter and i was all alone by myself.For a year i tried all i could to get her back with the help of my seven year old daughter.Even at that all effect was in vain, i used the help of her friend but turned out all bad.I know most people don't believe in spell casting but believe me this was my last option and the result i most say was impressive.And i know it difficult to believe but A SPELL CASTER Dr brave really made my life much better cos he gave me my family back.He didn't ask me to pay for what he did for me all i was to do, was to provide the materials for the spell and believe that he had the power to help me.Like he said, he was going to do something that will make her reset her love and affection for me just as it has always been.My wife told me she woke up and realized that she should have never left me that i am all she needs.To make thing clear, her life with her high school lover was great before Dr brave castled the spell they had no disagreement on anything.The guy said it himself that why she broke up with him is unexplainable.Only Dr.Brave can do such a thing contact him to solve your problem with his email:bravespellcaster@gmail.com ,or kindly visit he website http://bravespellcaster.yolasite.com .CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS

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  2. I love your ways! So nice to read what you think about things.

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  3. And why the heck would you wait for your first kiss to be in front of 1000 people, and in such an awkward way? See what you missed! hahaa

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    1. ha wait did i miss something? who had their first kiss in front of 1000 people?

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    2. Jill Duggar, 19 kids and counting. I don't watch that show but it's all over Yahoo news. She waited until her WEDDING DAY for her first kiss ever, and the photo is painfully awkward. Oh man, that night on the honeymoon must have been a wreak! haaa http://www.inquisitr.com/1315554/jill-duggars-adorable-first-kiss-see-the-photo-photo/

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    3. ha omg thanks for sending me down that worm hole. so interesting!!!

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  4. Sharon.... I am confused... are you an active mormon? Or have you left the church like Natalie Holbrook?

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    1. natalie's choices are very different than mine. please don't compare my experience to hers. i will always be a mormon even if i'm an atheist. i can't wash it off.

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    2. Thanks Sharon... it is hard to wash off. SO glad you are not like Natalie. I love your fun ways and tongue in cheek humor.

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  5. I am a nevermo, but my husband is a Mormon. I am honestly shocked that the church excommunicated her. On one hand, it's like, why would someone want to stay in a religion that is so misogynistic? On the other hand, I am impressed that she tried so hard to open dialogue within the church about the inequality. My heart was so broken for her. She seemed honestly hurt about being kicked out, basically, of her religion for speaking out! I am with you on the "Ordain No One" thing, but it's still so sad to see her get excommunicated. Anyway, I am so excited to find another non-Mormon that is following Kate Kelly! Almost thought I was the only one..

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    1. No girl, women everywhere are following this! This isn't just a Mormon issue, it's a gender equality in society issue! :)

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  6. And he saith unto them, Follow me and I will make you fishers of men, The Savior disagrees

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    1. i love whenever i see you on my blog richard. how are you!!!!

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  7. I loved this post! Isn't it refreshing to immerse yourself with friends/people who are not mormon? It helps you realize that everything is okay in the world. I love your comment, "i will always be a mormon even if i'm an atheist. i can't wash it off." This statement is so true! I am an active LDS member, but I know that regardless of my activity in the church I will always be mormon. it is just part of who I am. I love your honest blog!

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  8. Not to trivialize this but I can't help referencing the show Big Love...mostly bc I just binge watched it on amazon prime. But woman priesthood was a main plot point and it feels surreal reading your post and the above mentioned articles, especially bc the plight is so relevant in present day.

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  9. How to restore a broken relationship and marriage ,Love Spells That Really Work Fast

    My name is Mark Davis, my family and i live in NY USA.It was after seven years i got to discover that my wife was unfaithful to me.I didn't know what was going on at first but as she got deep in the affair with her new lover, i felt that our marriage was on the rocks.I notice that she no longer light up when i touch her or kiss her in her neck and her chest cos she really liked it when i did that, she also usually get naked in front of me but when she started seeing that guy she stopped it.I remember asking her if i have done anything that makes her feel irritated when i am around her then she gives silly excuses that she has been feeling stressed up and that she need space for a while.I know when you are been asked for space its usually because there is something fishy is going on.I hired a private investigator to help find out what was going on.And in a week time he brought me prove that my wife that i have lived with for seven straight year is cheating on me with her high school lover.I had picture of her walking out a of a restaurant with him and many other photo of them kissing in public like she will never be caught by someone that knows she is my wife.I asked myself, even when we had a daughter together she could this to me.That same night i showed her the pictures that i got from my private investigator.She didn't look at it before saying, that she is seeing someone and she know that i just found out about it.Then she said that she is in love with him.At that moment, i didn't know if to kill myself or to kill her but the button line is that if i was going to kill anyone it was going to be me cos i was so much in love with her to even think of thinking to hurt her.As time when on she asked for a divorce and got it and even got custody of our daughter and i was all alone by myself.For a year i tried all i could to get her back with the help of my seven year old daughter.Even at that all effect was in vain, i used the help of her friend but turned out all bad.I know most people don't believe in spell casting but believe me this was my last option and the result i most say was impressive.And i know it difficult to believe but A SPELL CASTER Dr brave really made my life much better cos he gave me my family back.He didn't ask me to pay for what he did for me all i was to do, was to provide the materials for the spell and believe that he had the power to help me.Like he said, he was going to do something that will make her reset her love and affection for me just as it has always been.My wife told me she woke up and realized that she should have never left me that i am all she needs.To make thing clear, her life with her high school lover was great before Dr brave castled the spell they had no disagreement on anything.The guy said it himself that why she broke up with him is unexplainable.Only Dr.Brave can do such a thing contact him to solve your problem with his email:bravespellcaster@gmail.com ,or kindly visit he website http://bravespellcaster.yolasite.com .CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS

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